Support in hard moments

When Every Ask Feels Like a Battle

Get immediate, PDA-specific guidance for the moments that matter most - from parents who understand, backed by expert knowledge.

You're Not Imagining It

Your child isn't being defiant. Your parenting isn't failing. And you're not alone in feeling completely exhausted.

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is a neurotype within autism where everyday requests trigger intense anxiety. What works for other autistic children - structure, rewards, clear expectations - can actually make things worse for PDA kids.

You need support designed specifically for PDA. Not generic autism advice. Not behavioral strategies. Real help for real moments.

PDA-Specific Support, Exactly When You Need It

Quick Crisis Support

When your child is melting down and you need help right now. Get immediate scripts, understanding, and calming strategies - no searching, no reading long articles.

Real Conversations

See exactly what to say in the moments that trigger your child. Scripts for transitions, homework, hygiene, leaving the house - written by parents who get it.

Understand the Why

Learn what's happening in your child's nervous system. Not behavioral explanations - actual brain-body science that explains the anxiety driving the avoidance.

Parents Using PDA Question

"I was standing in my daughter's doorway at bedtime, completely stuck. I opened the app, got a script in seconds, and she was brushing her teeth five minutes later. First time in weeks without a meltdown."

- Parent of 8-year-old

"Finally, something that understands PDA. Not just autism. Not behavior management. Actual PDA-specific strategies that work with my son's nervous system instead of against it."

- Parent of 11-year-old

"The visual explanations helped me show my son's teacher why he can't 'just try harder.' Now she gets it. The whole school team does."

- Parent of 6-year-old

Built on Expert Knowledge, Designed for Real Life

PDA Question is powered by a specialized AI trained exclusively on PDA-specific content - hundreds of hours of expert guidance, professional books, and real family experiences. Every response draws from the same low-demand, nervous-system-first approach that's helped thousands of families.

No generic advice. No guessing. Just the nuanced, compassionate support you'd get from a PDA specialist - available 24/7, right in your pocket.